of all the debates to have on a sunday morning. Plea: I just wanted my kids to get a chance to make friends. I just want someone to play music with. says the 31 year old to her 12 year old boy who states "church?!?!?!!?!? you can't force me to go to church!" keep in mind the boy is shouting in front of his impressionable 8 year old brother who's heart aches in excitment everytime he feels an atom of purpose radiate from his mothers soul. "Mommy  was almost a music teacher once." says 8 year old younger brother who at this time answers any questions pertaining to his mother with worry in his eyes. "She taught other kids in the class how to play instruments." So I suppose if you wanted to have a good day with your family that would include getting everyone on the same page. which of course would include not missing the bus to school , that is provided your bus knew to pick you up....of course meaning that the bus driver wanted you to go. oh yes. There is a character in here i forgot to mention, the mother of all mothers...The single mother. As i find myself explianing to my oldest son the importance of picking up on what others are feeling (he is autistic & could not stand the thought of letting his mom use the computer to look up the ingredients in a new medication she is taking for he is far too lazy & insufficient at asking questions that get to the point it is a weekend after all. forcing a child to think would be considered abuse) I tell his younger brother to go to  grandma that we want to go check out a church today.  Who's high heels  do we hear coming down the hall??? it's grandmas. of course she is on her way to her new church this morning. who is left behind? The single mother of 2. No husband, no glasses, no podium. Well whatever i say, you go have fun with your friends... i was just trying to get my kids out there...  you never taught me how to drive remember? & let them know they have a place to call home & they have people they can turn to after i die. yo cannot force people to listen unless it sounds good, you cannot make people be accepting of different things. i create music only. not magic