Obviously this doctor doesn't have fibromyalgia or he would never utter these ridiculous words.  The pain is overwhelming and life destroying.  Yes, we can survive without pain meds, but with them we can get relief and much needed rest so that we can function.  Ever wonder why the suicide rate among those with fibro is so high?  It's because most of the medical community refuses to acknowledge the pain level that can be involved and prescribe pain medicine according to each patients' individual needs.  It leaves the patient in a state of hopelessness and despair with no way to improve.  So pain meds don't work for everyone.  Neither does Lyrica, Cymbalta, or Savella.  We all react differently to medications.  At least allow us the opportunity to try & see what works best for our situation.