Honey your an idiot, sorry but your comment all you women, what about us men in this forum supporting freedom of choice for our partners. I take it your against gay adoption too. You listen to your propaganda fueled argument, 5 kids in my family none ever sick all above average IQ, with high profile jobs. End of day reality is fact all arguments on which is best are theory based. The truth that is not a theory is a well fed baby is all that matters, loved cared, fed, simple fact. In addition if my parter is not stressed then neither are my babies. I also believe all this attitude forcing opinion and making women feel a failure causes post natal depression.